I'm the same generation (age? 39) as you, so I understand it. And I still feel it's:Puja wrote: ↑Wed Jul 09, 2025 1:28 pmFair enough, but then your generation has very little idea of the era that I grew up in (as a 1980s Millennial, for info), nor of the era that Gens Z and Alpha have grown up in - does that mean you're not allowed to opine on what we do? Big, if true.Banquo wrote: ↑Wed Jul 09, 2025 10:03 amMy parents came from nothing (in money terms, my grandparents on my mum's side complete legendsPuja wrote: ↑Wed Jul 09, 2025 9:33 am
But why are they entitled to their parents' money? That's the bit I don't emotionally understand. Why does a family member working hard and earning loads (or not working hard and earning loads, in the case of landlords) mean that you deserve to get a windfall if they kick the bucket?
Puja), inherited nothing, and wanted to make sure we had something so scrimped and saved until they could afford a house and start a family (in their 30's), then carried on working hard to fund their relatively austere lifestyle and to provide for us (plus make sure we had something to pass on, as I do)- that hard work killed my dad when I was 13. Your generation has little idea of the era they grew up and lived in (big wars, rationing etc etc), nor much of one about the era I grew up in. Plus an expectation from parents that we would look after them when they grew old.
That's my lived experience young uns. Its kind of generational hard wiring.
I still don't understand why your grown kids need your wealth though once you're dead. Do they not have jobs of their own?
Puja
a) not partcularly fair.
b) not the thing that's going to "right the wrongs" of the tax system.
c) would be a lot better for a bottom cap.
Like most things, I firmly believe that wealth in those "middle class" levels should be encouraged. Those are the levels where you keep your money in the economy. You want more people to have that wealth in the range of £250k-£1.5m. And so when someone exits that bracket through death, you want their children to enter that bracket. Neither my sister nor I are in that bracket, even though we own our own homes, because the mortgage takes away most of that (and in my case I'm in Hungary, too).
So, as with everything, I would only start taxing inheritance on assets valued over £1m or £1.5m or some other number that has had a bit more thought gone into it.2
Someone shouldn't be able to inherit a £20m mansion tax free. But then they use trusts to get around it. So I would close those loopholes.
But in it's current form, it is unfair.
