Sandydragon wrote:Puja wrote:Sandydragon wrote:
So you're happy to prevent puberty in a teenager - thats still messing with a natural processes at a point where they are probably dealing with many conflicting thoughts. If nothing else its encouraging teenagers to make a first step when they are still juveniles.
Happier than I would be letting them make an irreversible decision that could result in them being in the wrong body while they are still dealing with those conflicting thoughts. I will note that I count "going through a puberty that they're pretty sure isn't the right one for them" as being an irreversible decision, just the same as giving a kid hormones would be.
I'd far rather give a confused kid time to figure themselves out, than insist that they have to make a final and mostly irrevokable decision early when we have the option to give them that delay. Absolute worst case scenario, they realise they were wrong and are cis as the day is long and you just stop the blockers. Far less harmful than making a young boy grow tits or a girl grow a beard because we won't let them make a decision themselves but are happy to make one for them with inaction.
Puja
Allowing puberty to happen naturally isn't an irreversible decision, sex change operations are an option later on. And we now add a new variable into younger children thought processes where they are hugely confused about life as a whole and add more stress to the family as well?
The NHS has recently changed its position from suggesting that puberty blockers are fully reversible with no long term effects to one that recognises that there may be long term effects which they don't fully understand yet. I accept thats probably as a result of the Tavistock Clinic being sued, but adding additional chemicals to a child's body when they are still developing is not something that should be done lightly. Id rather better counselling for children who believe they are the wrong gender with medical intervention possible once they have fully developed and understand themselves better.
I don't know whether you fully appreciate what a "sex change operation later on" involves. If we're talking about a trans girl, puberty causes a widening of the jaw and masculine facial changes, growing a beard, height changes, hip changes, shoulder changes, and voice changes. Of those, only two of them can be changed after they have happened - laser treatment for the beard (rarely available on the NHS and expensive privately) and the facial structure which can be altered through massive plastic surgery (almost never available on the NHS and ridiculously expensive, as well as dangerous and painful like any operation). Changes to the body's soft-tissue and musculature will come through hormones, but broad shoulders, narrow hips, deep voice, and being 6ft cannot be changed once they're done. For a trans boy it's the same in reverse, with the exception that a female voice can be lowered through hormones and a beard can be grown (although the stigma that comes from being a 5ft0 bloke is more than a 6ft0 woman gets, and it's far easier to add padding to look more curvy than it is to hide wide hips, so swings and roundabouts). The waiting list for top surgery (removal of breasts) is 3 years to even have a consultation on the NHS and it's £12k privately. It is absolutely an irreversible decision and I would bet if you asked any trans person if they wished they could have transitioned before puberty/taken puberty blockers until they could transition, you'd get a 100% yes.
I would also take issue with the idea that we're "introducing a new variable". Trans people have always existed - the change is that we're moving towards an environment where we don't just deny their existence and insist to teenagers that we know better than them about their mind and body, so more of them are coming out/not repressing. With that, there will inevitably be cis kids who are confused, who are swept along by other people, who don't know what's going on and cling to a label in the hope that that's them - teenagers, WYGD? However, feckless as teenagers are as a group, I knew I was a boy by the age of 16. I'm pretty sure everyone here also knew what gender they were at that point. Seems weird to assume that today's generation of teenagers lack the same self-awareness of their own body to the extent that they cannot even be trusted to have time to think about it.
On the medical issues, I will plead some ignorance - I know that the drugs have been widely used for decades for other medical needs (including stopping early puberty in children where it comes on at age 8 or something stupid) and there have been no noted long-term effects, but I am not a doctor nor a specialist. I suspect that the NHS are hedging their bets, as you say.
Right now the argument seems to be, "We haven't got any evidence that puberty blockers cause any negative effects, but we can't be 100% certain that there might not possibly be something in the future that we're not aware of yet, so it seems better to deny treatment to trans kids, even though there's
lots of evidence that doing so increases suicide and self-harm rates massively." Yes, the experience of that one cis kid who went through puberty blockers and then fully transitioned when they were older and then realised that they were wrong is shitty and I really feel for them ending up stuck in the wrong body and having to have massive surgery to fix it. But that's exactly what denying puberty blockers is sentencing thousands of trans kids to and I don't get how we can care about one kid ending up in the wrong adult body and not the thousands of others.
Puja