Coco wrote:Puja wrote:Coco wrote:
Scaremongering? So youre saying the story is a lie and there are no refs quitting or expressing their concerns for safety of other players, or being stuffed in the bigotry box for trying to do their job?
Truth and "the truth"... semantics?
I think you're falling for the logical fallacy that does come up quite a lot when this kind of subject comes up, which is the idea that being able to play in women's sport is a reward worthy of pretending to be a trans woman. As previously discussed, being a trans woman in this society is shit and people just don't do it if they're not genuinely trans - the reward of being able to play a lower level of rugby is just not good enough to balance out the increased risk of murder!
I do think the story is scaremongering with very little basis in fact. I wouldn't call it an outright lie (although the Times is hardly without form when it comes to making up a quote from a "source who wanted to remain anonymous") - there probably exists a referee who has an issue with having being called a bigot because they wanted to check a burly woman to see if she was one of those transes that he's read about in the paper* - but it's almost certainly overblown.
As mentioned by Stom, trans women want to be taken for women - they're highly unlikely to be maintaining a man's physique and a full beard (although it's to be noted that if you want electrolysis to make it so the beard never grows again, you have to stop shaving for a certain period, which is one situation where a trans woman might have a beard for a short time) and I do not believe in the slightest that there is an epidemic of burly men posing as women and daring refs to make a deal out of it. Quite apart from anything else, other teams would refuse to play them and there'd be a furore with more evidence than, "an anonymous source said." The fact that the notoriously transphobic Times couldn't find even one rugby team who'd had a problem with playing against a trans man suggests it's something of nothing.
Puja
*On a side note, let's say we invest referees with the power that this article seems to be asking for them to have - that they should be able to investigate female rugby players and decide whether they are female enough or not. 1) How many false positives would that throw up, given that women rugby players are, as a group, more likely to be taller and stronger than the societal average and front row forwards of any gender are likely to be child-scaringly ugly. And 2) WHO THINKS GIVING A LOCAL REFEREE THE MANDATE TO CHECK PEOPLE'S GENDER IS A GOOD IDEA?! That's going to end up in someone demanding to look at genitalia and we all know it.
How about this... why not get more information and more of a certainty about hormonal and physical advantages before allowing this to become an experiment we are all watching unfold at the detriment of all of the women, whether they be intersex, trans, or not. The jury is still out on hormone levels, possible physical advantages, and so on. Why is it bigoted to ask for proof? And why are the concerns of non trans females being treated as though they are silly or bigoted? Where is the happy medium and "equality"?
So a happy medium is not allowing someone to play rugby?
If someone abused you every day at work and your boss told you that they were just concerned because you were a woman...
Abuse is abuse.
And there are always going to be people who do not play by the rules. Don't tarnish a whole group of people by them.
It's like saying ban Christianity because Mike Pence exists.
Or ban black people from owning guns because there was a black shooter.
Or ban the Irish from laying driveways because someone got scammed.
If an individual has broken the rules all out of shape, ban them. Don't ban an entire group of people.
And don't listen to 1 source. Ever.